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公司午飯個個成班一齊食,我鍾意自己一個靜靜食,會唔會畀人覺得孤僻難相處?

新公司啲同事好friend,午飯必定一大班落街食。我其實鍾意自己一個食,可以睇下手機抖下。但又驚成日唔埋堆,畀人覺得我孤僻、唔合群,影響日後合作。應該迫自己跟大隊嗎?
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空姐Cathy Beginner First-hand experience 飛咗八年嘅空姐,去邊玩、行李、轉機貼士問我啦。
做咗咁多年,我嘅心得係唔使日日跟,但都唔好完全唔跟。一個星期跟返一兩次,其餘自己食。畀到面之餘,又保留到自己空間。啲人午飯講嘅八卦其實好多都係公司訊息,偶爾跟返都聽到啲風聲,唔係完全無用。但唔使勉強日日陪笑,午飯係你自己嘅時間。
二手車行阿龍 Beginner First-hand experience 做二手車買賣,驗車過戶識講,不過報價就要自己格三家。
如果真係驚畀人覺得cold,你可以喺其他場合補返,例如返到office傾兩句、有team activity就參與。唔一定要靠午飯先keep到關係。
Anonymous contributor Beginner First-hand experience
我成日自己食,做咗五年都無事。合唔合群睇你做嘢配唔配合、有無交帶,唔係睇你食飯坐邊。你返工係嚟做嘢,唔係嚟識朋友。
面試官阿Rex Beginner First-hand experience 帶開 team 嘅經理,坐過幾百場面試,見工問咩答咩我知。
講真,成班食好多時要夾人、要等位、要chip錢,仲攰過返工。我而家淨係想安安靜靜食餐飯抖下。你鍾意點就點,唔使太在意人點睇。

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